I am European man, 32 years old. I love a Thai woman, 29 years old. We are together already 1 year. But last week, she have sex with another man. Now she wants me back. What can I do.
I tell you a story. When I first meet her, she was exactly my type of woman. Cute, warm face and gentle personality. Her family is very important for her. And she love her dog in Thailand and her second dog in Europe. She is always smiling and try to enjoy the life every minute. We fall in love and spend almost every day together, sometimes only FaceTime.
After 9 months, I ask her to marry me. She say yes and we start to talk about having children. There is one thing I fear. She like to drink alcohol and when she drink, she talk a lot with other man. She like to be playful with other men. When I angry her, she say is only talk. She says she only love me. I believe her, but I am scared when she drink, she not control herself.
Last week, my worst nighmare come true. She go out with 3 girlfriends and 1 man. All her girlfriends like the man. But the man like my woman very much. My woman she drink a lot, so she like that the man choose her and like her, and not her 3 girlfriends. The man say to my woman and her 3 girl friends that they can sleep at his house. They say yes. The man hold my woman in his arms in his bed and my woman likes the feeling. She feel she win, because the man choose her and not her 3 girlfriends. They start to have sex.
After that, the man loves my woman and send a lot of messages. I see yesterday on her Iphone the messages. Now my woman crying a lot, because she love me and wants only me. My heart is broken and I am very sad. I say to her it can take many years before I can touch her again, because I feel so so bad. She say she will wait forever and never drink alcohol again.
I love her, but I feel very very bad..
What do you think that I can do? I have to give her second chance?